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A Backstabber
07.16.06 (2:38 pm)   [edit]
("HOAAAAAAAHHHMMM", 'O" nguap ceritanya) Well, it's 2.30 the morning, I slept at six pm, hehehehe... when i woke up, it was eleven. Sepi... And I got my 'dinner' at twelve :P

Sbenernya gue gak niat nulis. But one thing crossing my mind: seseorang yang 'backstabbing' elo, n you found out that the person is your friend, even your bestfriend. geee... Well, itu selalu terjadi kalo gue lagi jalan or ngobrol sama dia. Panggil aja dia "X". Gue kira dia bakal introspeksi diri or nyadar or gimana gitu yah, tapi ternyata tuh orang nggak berubah.

'Backstabbing'-nya sih menurut gue lebih ke kata2 n sikap. Seharusnya dia bisa dong pengertian ke gue kalo gue punya masalah or unpleasant thing, tapi dianya malah nyecer abis gitu dan semua kata2nya bisa gue simpulin kalo sebenernya dia lagi bilang "Elo tuh SALAH!!!!".

Siapa sih lo?!?! Situ artis?!?! Situ OK?!?! Dan bukan gue aja yang ngerasa keluhan yang sama. Bocah2 yang lain tuh juga. Yang lain pada ngenilai kalo si "X" ini orangnya stubborn abis n kalo ngomong suka nyinggung perasaan orang (or yang disinggung terlalu sensitip yak?) n mau menangnya sendiri. Susah untuk dibantah, boro2 dibantah, kita ngasih advise aja dianya malah jadi panas or ngebantah ampe tuh muka kaya kepiting rebus karena jadi emosian...

Ujung2nya, testi di FSter dia pada bilang nih anak emosian n gak bisa jaga perasaan orang laen . Mungkin kalo keras kepala sih gue pribadi masih bisa terima, tapi masalahnya sikap dia yang suka nyinggung perasan orang n nggak ragu nge-judge. Mikir dong! Well, kalo lagi butuh sesuatu ama orang laen, dia malah jadi baek minta ampun. Gue aja ngeliatnya jadi aneh :S.

Kalo gue ama temen2 'jadi korban sepetan' dia, kita tuh yang pengen banget nyeletuk "woy ini di kota, bukan di desa! kampung banget sih lo!!!". Emang udah bawaan dari sononya kali yah nih anak kaya begitu. Kaya gak nyadar gitu loh kalo cara dia untuk negur or ngingetin malah nyakitin orang. Dan kalo gue peratiin, yah dari dulu nih anak gak terlalu banyak temennya, kaya soliter gituloh. Dampak dia ga bisa behave ke orang laen kali yah...

Btw, gue lagi suka lagu Same Same, Love Isn't :). Saking asiknya, reff-nya gue jadiin tone buat HP ^_^. Emang sih lagunya menye-menye gimana gitu, cuman seru aja...sweet gitu deh . Kemaren waktu Same2 showcase ke BIP, gue yang pengen liat gituh. Tapi gue lagi di Jakarta. Tadi juga liat CD-nya, mo beli tapi gue lagi pengen ngirit. Lagi denger lagunya Goo Goo Dolls, Iris. Sempet liat remake-nya yang dinyanyiin Ronan Keating di TV. Kok jadi garing ya...
 


posted by: wiwin (reply)
post date: 07.15.06 (8:23 pm)

same2 dong,gue jg suka Same Same...

orang kaya si X tuh kudu dikasi pelajaran,kudu di backstab balik...kita 'backstab' aja sama2



posted by: sisca (reply)
post date: 07.16.06 (12:44 am)

Gak enak juga ya, ketika beberapa kali pindah tempat, saya jd menyimpulkan bahwa dimanapun kita berada, pasti akan bertemu satu orang seperti itu.

Btw, meskipun sisca tinggal di Perancis, tp tempat hanyalah sebuah nama, bagiku yg terbaik tetap tanah air kita Indonesia :)




posted by: nawir (reply)
post date: 07.16.06 (4:12 pm)

sabar... sabar... sabar....
dan kesabaran itu katanya penggugur dosa...
sabar.. sabar... sabar...
denger musiknya juga... sabar sabar sabar...
sabar.. yaa ruhul jadid... sabar...



posted by: Stephen Newton (reply)
post date: 07.17.06 (8:29 am)

Dita, So sorry you suffered from the mosquito bit and missed your exams. In Florida the mosquitoes carry diseases like Yellow Feve, Nile fever, Mengitis, and Sleeping sickness. This year they are worse than before.



posted by: Stephen Newton (reply)
post date: 07.24.06 (3:35 am)

Dita, Thanks for your comments about the world situation. I hope that our next US election provides a good president and we can start to heal the damage done by the present one.



posted by: Stephen Newton (reply)
post date: 07.24.06 (3:36 am)

Yes, please add my link to your blog and I shall do the same.




posted by: ali (reply)
post date: 07.25.06 (1:05 am)

hooy,wazzup gal?!?!
same2, lo suka dit?!?!
weleh weleh



posted by: afin (reply)
post date: 07.29.06 (1:20 pm)

so i think u just wanna kick this guy to the moon, but coz u're nice person u didn't do u, did u?
:) it's ok, i know how do u feel, but sometime its the way we learn how to understand another's people feeling when suddenly we give a complain or say a useless word to them.
Your english is really really cool, i like this


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